Letter to my Son ~ November 10, 2014
“I thought I would take you for a walk through Jasper Park with Jade and I.
I hope that I can make it nice and as real as words can make it for you:
I always, even when the park is open (and it is closed now) drive to the outside parking lot. It is kind of
my way of enjoying every step of the way. From leashing up Jade, locking the car, and beginning to be
pulled by Jadester.
The walk-in is awesome as it is gross at first with mud and a locked gate, but the path gets you to the
paved road and it begins the beautiful enjoyable walk into my favorite place on earth. You see the pond
to the right and the drainage culvert to the left. And, if you look up, the tress are so high and the leaves,
if there is a breeze, gently blow them, all independently and with a soothing noise of gentle rustling.
But it is the sight of them that pleases as they spin and some reflect the light while others you see the
bold yellow and browns. And, they are beautiful giants to welcome you into paradise.
There is a dog park now. Fenced and secure so I can let Jade off the leash to run, with a smile on her
face. Oops… she halts and takes a poop… and off she goes again. And after only a few laps
around she is ready to walk the park and is waiting for me at the gate.
I leash her up and prepare to resist being pulled at 30 mph. She takes off and before long we come to
the river. I have seen the river up over the banks into the park, and the bank is at least 6 ft high. In the
summer Jade likes to lay in the water, biting at it and playing in it. I don’t venture down the bank now
because it is muddy, I don’t want a wet dog and for fear I will slip and end up muddy too. I love
looking at the river. It is wide, fast and beautiful, while a bit scary too. The path we walk in the park
borders the river for about 1⁄4 mile and at times is breathtaking. I love the beaver damn, the swimming
hole and the fallen tree trunk that has been there forever.
Looking straight ahead there is this tree that is majestic, I think it is a maple, and the base is a massive
root ball with moss all over it. And, we walk the bark-a-mulched path to a place I once thought would
be where I married Jack, beneath these ancient cedar trees. There are picnic table and swings. It feels
cool from the heaviness of the size and branches of the trees. And of course, the river with a small
Walk through the Cedar trees to a path that leads down a small hill and has leaves that crunch, or are
slippery under your feet, depending on the weather. To the right is a boulder that is big and has moss
all over it. And as you walk slowly up the path there is a tree that is a young cedar, ferns growing in the
strangest places, and so many colors of green it is amazing! Occasionally a mushroom is here or there.
The path winds and at times you see that a path will take off and lead down to the river. You walk
through spider webs and wipe them off your forehead hoping that the spider that made that web is not
riding piggy back on you.
Then there is a tree that arches and it looks so interesting. An upside down U. It has been there for
many years. You take off to a path that goes right and then there are many spider webs as you continue.
You turn slightly to the left and there you walk into a clearing which is also a baseball field. The trees
surround the field and there are horseshoe pits as you come to the end of the field.
Turning to the left you follow another unpaved road to the paved road, Here is where there are lots of
squirrels and Jade is quite interested in them.
When you reach the paved road you walk along it and a fenced pasture. Once, years ago, there were
cows at pasture in there. I am not a singer but I was singing that day. Singing a song I had learned and I
knew no one would hear me, because no one is ever at the park in the winter. I was walking along
singing when I got to this pasture and looked up. All the cows were lined up at the fence looking and
listening. They were my audience and they liked my singing! (I sing pretty badly too)
There are leaves crunching under your feet. Even Jade is enjoying the noise of the leaves that have
piled up in the road. You can see all the trees in the park, some of them are red, some brown, some
yellow, some large, some small. The colors are so unbelievable and brilliant. The beauty is
overwhelming and I feel my soul, the beauty in me is represented in the beauty I see in the colors and
textures and noises.
God made all of it!
Watching the side of the road I will see mushrooms poking out from the leaves.
And more mushrooms…
Jade watches for birds and sniffs in holes and stops when she hears a noise. Mostly small birds in the
bushes. And, again we are back to the really tall trees as we begin the walk out of the park:
And again, I say thanks for the legs to walk, the eyes to see and the love I have in my heart!
Thank you for always being in my heart….”
Debi Douglass is an amazing, compassionate woman whose friendship adds massive value to my life. About Debi ~ “I am a mother of two, have lived in Oregon for 39 years and I am a Realtor. I have been a licensed Realtor since 1995. I love Oregon and I love dogs, so I walk a lot and there is nowhere that is more beautiful than Lane County Parks. I first visited Jasper Park 38 years ago. Strangely, I had no idea then that Jasper Park would become my favorite place, and I would visit it again and again. I take people I love there. I have been there in flood, snow, rain and sunshine. I have walked 3 dogs there that I have owned. I now have Jade, a Siberian Husky. She is 3 1/2 years old and loves to walk. In my business as a Realtor, I donate to animal advocacy groups and local and national animal shelters. Every house I sell, I send a check to an organization. My favorite is the Greenhill Humane Society. There are other favorites: Fences for Fido build fences for animals that are chained. Pongo Fund provided food for those that are struggling to afford food for their beloved pets. I invite you to connect with me on LinkedIn for more information about my Real Estate career.”